Margie's Love Story

1. 戲劇化之戀 – 梁朝偉

曾華倩與梁朝偉可謂“歡喜冤家”﹐因為兩人曾離離合合達三次之多﹐華倩與她生命中第一男人 -- 偉仔。在八二年的無線藝員訓練班認識而拍拖﹐但拍到八四年卒然分手﹐但事隔一年後﹐二人被安排合作電影<青春差館>﹐戲劇化地再擦出愛火花﹐把二人拉在一起﹐但不到一年﹐又再分手。

大概是外間人太過看重二人是“金童玉女”的關係﹐結果當他倆再合作拍<新紮師兄一九八八>時﹐竟再復合﹐不過此段情之維持半年仍然無疾而終﹐華女說做梁朝偉身邊的女人很辛苦﹐從此不可能再成為戀人。

梁朝偉與曾華倩的三離三合

曾華倩是在17歲與梁朝偉一同主持兒童節目<430穿梭機>而開始相戀。首次分手的時候﹐彼此都留下了心病﹐縱使平日碰面﹐兩人也互不相睬﹐直至公司出面做和事佬﹐將分開後但依然深愛著對方的他倆﹐安排合演 <新紮師兄續集>。在劇中安排兩人演恩愛夫妻﹐後來每天合作見面﹐再加上劇情的配合﹐兩人也就和好如初﹐令喜愛他倆的觀眾也為之興奮。

然而兩人復合不久﹐又再傳出分手的消息﹐令旁人為之擔心﹐可能從前未解決的問題再度出現﹐所以第二度分手的消息再次被證實。二度分手﹐兩人各自找到了伴侶﹐偉仔因拍 <倚天屠龍記> 認識了 ﹐而華女亦與騎師鄭仲謀拍拖起來。但﹐戀情一波三折﹐始終也結不出愛的果子﹐華女又回復了自由身。

就在拍攝<新紮師兄1988>的那個時候﹐就傳出有人看到偉仔和華女手牽手逛街看戲。偉仔和華女開始拍拖﹐已被全世界的人類公認為是金童玉女的配合﹐再度傳出三度復合的消息﹐令人振奮。直至傳出偉仔和劉嘉玲拍拖﹐偉仔和華女的戀史方告一段落。

2. 短暫親緣 – 鄭仲謀

曾華倩與前騎師鄭仲謀的戀情﹐是因被記者拍下照片後而曝光的﹐當時為八六年十一月﹐其實那時她與偉仔已是第二次分手﹐數月後﹐便跟鄭仲謀交往。這邊廂華女找到了鄭仲謀﹐而偉仔又因拍劇 拍拖﹐不過最後此段情經不起時間的考驗﹐維持了年多便告分手了。

3. 愛得高姿態 – 陳庭威

曾華倩與陳庭威在八九年底拍拖﹐一直維持了三年之久﹐而二人一起在亞視工作﹐經常出雙入對﹐猶記得華女加盟亞視之日﹐陳庭威還公然以男主人姿態出現二人更在記者要求下﹐首次公開嘴對嘴親吻。另外﹐當年陳庭威跟肥姐沈殿霞上契﹐華女也一起合照﹐還被取笑是肥姐的“契新抱”呢。不過好景不常﹐因為男方太顧自己的事業﹐忽略了女友﹐結果由拖友變成好朋友﹐最後更降級﹐只變成朋友﹐感情就此淡出。

娛記落力幫忙拉線 陳庭威順利追到曾華倩

陳庭威說他和曾華倩是被娛記亂造煲水新聞﹐結果莫名其妙煲出真感情。陳庭威說他和曾華倩之所以會走在一起﹐其實是由外界人士間接促成的﹐比如新聞界不停追問﹐報導﹐造成他和她是一對的形象﹐然後﹐電視台又乘機拿來做橋段, 硬硬安排他們以情侶的姿態出現﹐間接為他們製造了許多相處的機會。結果兩個人果真互相吸引﹐思想是越溝越通﹐結果假戲真做﹐無心插柳﹐柳卻成了蔭。

說起第一次結識曾華倩的時候﹐是在拍<新紮師兄續集>﹐陳庭威說﹕“那時候我對她的印象並不好。說實在的﹐我不喜歡她﹐覺得她任性了點﹐不懂得體諒別人﹐容易發脾氣。”“ 也難怪﹐她來自美好家庭﹐自小養尊處優﹐根本不懂得去體諒別人背後的種種辛酸﹐所以時常做出一些不當的事﹐說了一些不該說的話。”陳庭威說﹕“我常常向她分析﹐指正她的缺點。”原來陳庭威跟她溝通的第一個步驟﹐竟然就是教她怎樣做人。

4. 真命天子 – 林肇基

曾華倩與拍拖三年多的林肇基﹐在九六年四月二十五日於英國倫敦註冊結婚﹐在父母及哥哥的見證下﹐正式成為林太。華女是個絕對怕麻煩的人﹐所以二人婚禮一切從簡﹐沒穿婚紗也沒拍婚紗照﹐只帶備價值數千元的結婚戒指一對﹐身穿粉藍色連身裙﹐化裝由自己一手包辦﹐林肇基則替華女整理頭髮。註冊後翌日﹐華女與林肇基便往意大利﹐瑞士和威尼斯等地度蜜月﹔五月六日二人返港後即往林肇基家﹐向老爺和奶奶斟茶。

林肇基乃年輕有為的商人﹐曾往英國留學﹐自二十二歲返港後開設世界美髮用品有限公司﹐生意遍布東南亞一帶。

新婚

做了林太十八天的曾華倩﹐每天大清早﹐會比丈夫早起﹐報紙看了一半﹐丈夫會起床﹐服侍他出門﹐尤其要在他離開時全屋巡視一次。“他呀﹐比較大頭蝦﹐好多時下到樓下打電話上來說不記得帶車匙﹐要我拿下去﹐所以我慣了朝朝跟在他身後看他帶漏了什麼東西。當你遇到一個值得這樣做而又甘于付出的人時﹐一切都是快樂的。”

婚前林生家和廠都在屯門﹐婚後二人的愛巢筑在香港。有時林生工作太忙﹐省回舟車時間﹐便索性不回中環的家。“我會好傻地覺得幾開心呀﹐一個人睡完整張床好舒服﹐而第二天見到他﹐又會愛他多點﹐這便是小別勝新婚吧﹐我們倆很有生活情趣﹐有時間會坐在屋裡聽音樂喝紅酒﹐放假一齊去打球﹐不是些什麼很花費的活動﹐又喜歡一齊去旅行。”兩個獅子座的人﹐志趣特別相投。

華女覺得世上每一件事﹐尤其是愛情﹐是不能用金錢來衡量的。“好像有人問我今次婚禮花了多少錢﹐戒指貴不貴, 我不喜歡用這種方式來計算﹐這也是我不想將婚禮搞到好像做SHOW的原因。”

華女的林太心得﹐夫妻之間的感情﹐可以歷久常新﹐原來是靠睡前一吻來維系。“我倆從拍拖到結婚﹐都沒有大吵過﹐小爭執定有的﹐但我們有個習慣﹐就是臨睡前一定要一吻﹐好多時有些爭執﹐就算心裡有點氣﹐慣了要吻﹐一吻也就什麼事也沒有了﹐就算未吻見對方都會笑﹐一笑就是什麼氣也沒有了。”

我倆是不會生氣對方很久的人﹐誰對誰錯都無所謂﹐因為我倆會打電話給對方﹐有人肯走第一步就沒事啦﹐這是靠兩人肯同步這樣做才行﹐相處是一門學問﹐慢慢從生活中學習的來的。”

“其實我們是好自然地結婚﹐每年都去意大利看表演﹐而英國的房子又蓋好了﹐不就順便結婚﹐也沒什麼計不計劃的。”

求婚

曾華倩人美聰明﹐究竟Stephen(林之洋名)當初怎樣打動女友芳心﹐令伊人願意下嫁呢﹖

Stephen聽罷顯得有點尷尬 ﹕“你們怎麼問這種問題呀﹗(有無送花或很浪漫的求婚﹖) 我是個沒浪漫﹐ 比較實際的人﹐其實拍拖這麼久﹐都是時候結婚啦﹗(就是怎樣求婚﹖)....不好問啦﹗這麼私人﹗"只見他有點害羞﹐而且雙耳紅了﹐原來表面高大威猛的Stephen﹐為人相當可愛。

問他喜歡老婆仔些甚麼﹐他毫不考慮地說﹕“個人好好﹐好容易相處﹐我家人都好喜歡她﹐她又懂得照顧我。”一臉幸福的表情﹐表露無疑。

懂得照顧他﹖那麼華女平日會否下廚煮兩道﹖

“有呀﹗(你最喜歡吃他煮的那道菜﹖)....炒冷飯﹐好好吃的﹗”Stephen提起都笑得非常開心﹐原來Stephen最喜歡吃的是炒冷飯﹗

生子

曾華倩於1999年1月1日下午2時﹐在沙田仁安醫院誕下他與林肇基的首位愛情結晶品林浩賢﹐體重八磅多。

“他呀﹗十足十父親的模樣﹐好man﹐只有那下巴部份﹐才有點像我”

“我喜歡他的模樣很<仔>﹐這才有勁。”

生個兒子﹐林曾兩家差不多總動員照顧﹕“哥哥女友入產房陪我﹐老公拿著錄像機﹐替我拍下產房情況﹐但他只拍我的面部表情﹐沒有拍下最重要的一刻﹐我相信這樣較好﹐會令他好過些﹐事後﹐他告訴我其實他內心好怕。”

1. A Screen Play like Romance – Tony Leung

Margie and Tony began their "love and hate" relationship while she was still in TVB's actors training class in 1982. They broke up two years later but was reunited again after filming the movie [The Young Cops] together in 1985. As in a screen play with its twisted plot, the couple broke up again for the second time a year later.

Perhaps their relationship was viewed by most as the "match made in heaven", they fell in love once again while working together on [Police Cadets 88]. However, this last reconcilation was short lived as it quietly ended half a year later. Margie said being the women behind Tony was very difficult, thus they can never be lovers again.

Tony And Margie

Margie started dating Tony at the age of 17 while they both hosted the show [430 Space Shuttle].Perhaps they were left with a painful scar after their first breakup, They would often ingore the other person's presence when ever they run into each other. It was not until TVB paired them up as a couple in [Police Cadets 85] when they realized they still loved one another.They became a couple again after acting together as husband and wife in the show. This made fans who supported their relationship very happy.

But not long after, rumours about their breakup began to circulate. Maybe previous conflicts that has not yet been resolved surfaced again, which eventually lead to a second breakup.After their second separation, Margie and Tony both found new dating partners. Tony dated and Margie met up with Mr. Cheng.This relationship didn't work out either, Margie resumed to singlehood again after breaking up with Mr. Cheng.

It was during the filming of [Police Cadets 88] when Margie and Tony were spotted holding hands while on a date to the movies.And so they were together once again. Just when the whole world thought they were the perfect match, they separated up for the 3rd time.Margie and Tony's relationship became a thing of the past when Tony started dating Carina Lau.

2. Brief Encounter – Cheng Chong Mou

Margie's relationship with jockey Mr. Cheng was exposed after reporters snapped a picture to them together in late 86. Margie met Mr. Cheng a few months after breaking up with Tony the second time.While Margie was seeing Mr. Cheng, Tony was also dating after filming a series together. However, both relationship ended shortly after a year.

3. Loving in High Spirits – Nathan Chan

Margie and Nathan started dating at the end of 89. Their relationship lasted 3 years and was frequently seen together after they both signed with ATV. During the press conference that welcomed Margie to ATV, Nathan played the role of hostess and even kissed Margie in front of the cameras after much pleading from the reporters. Also, after Nathan became Lydia Sung's godson, Margie was often teased as Lydia's "future goddaughter-in-law". But their happiness soon ended as Nathan put too much emphasizes on his career and started to neglect Margie. As a result, their relationship later became friendship.

Nathan And Margie

Nathan described that his relationship with Margie started because of the rumours created by reporters. They gradually became a couple after much rumours and questions about their relationship was strongly pursue by the media. At the same time, TVB paired them up together in a series to take advantage of the free publicity. Because of all the set up opportunties, they became to know one another better and eventually became attracted to each other.

Talking back to the first time Nathan meet Margie while filming Police Cadets, Nathan said: "She did not leave me with a good impression, to be honest, I didn't like her. I thought she was a bit spoiled, wasn't understanding toward others people's feelings and was quick to throw a temper."

"It's hard to blame her though, she came from a good background with no worries while growing up, she did not know how to sympathesize with the hardship other people may have endured. For that reason, she often did things and spoke words she shouldn't have." Nathan said he often confront her with her shortcomings and explain to her what she done wrong.Nathans first step to communicating with Margie was teaching her to be a better person.

4. True Prince – Stephen Lam

Margie and Stephen Lam married in England after dating a little more than 3 years. Under the witness of her family, Margie offically became Mrs. Lam on April 25, 96. Margie was a minimalist in preparing for her wedding. She did not wear a wedding gown nor took wedding photos, only a pair of wedding bands were brought along to the reception. She wore a simple light blue outfit and took care of her own make up while Stephen did her hair.The married couple then went to Italy, Switerland, Vienna, etc for their honeymoon before returning to HK for a tea ceremony with Stephen's parents.

Stephen And Margie

– Newly-married —

After becoming Mrs. Lam, Margie's daily chore was to make sure her husband does not leave anything behind before he leaves for work. "He is very forgetful, many times he will call me from downstairs saying he forget his car keys. I am used to following him around each morning to make sure nothing is forgotten.Once you find yourself willingly to do things like this, everything is worth it.

Before he wedded, Stephen's apartment and company was in Tuen Mun. But after he married Margie, their new home is in Hong Kong Island. Sometimes he will stay behind in Tuen Mun and not return home when he is too busy at work.Margie: "Although its a bit silly, I will be quite happy knowing that I'll get the bed all to myself. When I see him the next morning, I will feel that I love him a bit more. We enjoy our lifestyle together, sometimes we'll stay at home and listen to music and drink red wine. On our days off, we'll go play tennis, activities that do not require a lot of money. Also, we both love travelling."

Margie feels that love should not be measured with money. "Many people ask me how much I spent on my wedding, how much my wedding ring is worth, but I don't like to weigh things in accordance to its price. That is the reason I didn't want to make my wedding into a big show."

Margie revealed that she and her husband share a little trick to maintain the freshness to their marriage. "We seldom have big arguements, but will sometimes quarell over small things. But we have a habit of giving each other a kiss before going to bed. Although we may feel a bit of anger after agrueing, we will still kiss. After the kiss, everything will be alright. Most of the time we will start laughing even before we kiss, all the anger will be gone after laughing."

"Marriage was a very natural thing for us. We travel to Italy each year to watch shows. As well, we have a house in England, so we decided to get married, there was not much planning involved."

— Propose Marriage —

Margie is pretty and smart, how did Stephen convince her to marry him?

Stephen was a little embarassed after hearing this "Why would you ask such a personal question?... I'm not a romantic person, we've been dating for quite a while, it was time to get married." But still the reporter pursued the question again. This time he started to turn a bit red. Don't be fooled by his manly appearance, Stephen is actually a very cute and bashful guy.

When asked what he likes about his wifey, he quicky replied: "She is a very nice person, very easy to get along with, my family really likes her and she knows how to take care of me."

Does Margie know how to cook?

"Yes!" What is your favorite dish? "Fried leftover rice ... its very good!"

— Gave Born —

Margie Tsang gave birth to a 8 lb baby at Yan On Hospital in Sha Tin on 1st January 1999 at 2:00 in the afternoon.

From what she remembers, the baby looks more like her husband, but later Margie said the baby looks like both of them.

Her husband was by her side the whole time and even recorded the giving birth process using a camcorder. He remembers being excited and scared at the same time when he was in the delivery room. When he saw how much pain Margie was in, he was so touched, he almost cried.