# Margie's Friendship


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#### 曾華倩 · 吳君如 -- 兩個煩人更投緣

<p style="text-indent:2em">問吳君如最好的朋友是誰﹖她爽快的說﹕“曾華倩﹐我們認識幾十 年﹐很死黨。”君如說華倩的好處就是﹕“她的樣子丑啦﹐和我走在一起顯得我比較漂亮。” 接著他風趣的說﹕“我們投緣的其中之一原因是擇偶對象不同﹐不用爭﹐我喜歡的她未必喜歡﹗”</p>

<p style="text-indent:2em">說笑一番後﹐君如很正經的說﹕“我們實在太好談了﹐無論思想﹐性格皆很相似。她遲我四天出生﹐如果同月同日生﹐相信會更加相似。</p>

<p style="text-indent:2em">在電話的另一邊﹐曾華倩的第一個反應是﹕“與吳君如最好談。”原因不外乎又是踩對方一腳﹐言詞一模一樣。華倩知道君如的答案和她不謀而合時﹐笑說﹕“是啊﹐性格各方面都接近﹐而且大家同樣囉嗦﹐長氣﹐朋友都說我好煩﹐只有和君如一起時才覺得她比我更煩﹐只有她講的份。”</p>

<p style="text-indent:2em">“和君如最難忘的經驗是訓練班時。當時進行考試﹐考大家扮傷心痛苦。我和君如想出一個辦法﹐就是互相掌摑對方最痛到哭為止﹐誰知邊打邊笑﹐唯有用力捏對方﹐結果哭個不停﹐順利過關。”</p>

#### 曾華倩 · 朱慧珊 -- 老友鬼鬼話童年

###### 朱慧珊話曾華倩

<p style="text-indent:2em">人在不同的階段﹐性格有所不同。華倩以前比較多稜角﹐會刺人。89-90年﹐她都幾寸﹐會說話窒我﹐我太了解她﹐當然不會生氣﹐但心裡亦會想﹕怎麼這樣說話呀﹖近年﹐可能受身邊人的影響﹐華倩變了很多﹐稜角磨圓了﹐和她接觸舒服很多。華倩生性樂天﹐常常講笑﹐和她做朋友﹐絕對令你開心。別看她成日嘻嘻哈哈﹐其實她性格獨立﹐思想很成熟。</p>

###### 曾華倩話朱慧珊

<p style="text-indent:2em">在我的生命裡﹐朱慧珊是我太好的朋友﹐我們從小到大都一起﹐我不懂得﹐亦不會刻意花時間去分析她的性格﹐我只知道在街上看見某些物件﹐我即刻知道適不適合她。如果一定要形容﹐我只能說她比較依賴﹐做事節奏太慢。</p>

###### 話童年

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕我第一此見你是三歲﹐我記得當日你媽咪和我媽咪在街上談天﹐我躲在媽咪背後﹐偷偷看你。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕因為我們住在同一條街﹐她們打麻將認識。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕後來我們入同一間小學﹐大家同班﹐三年級開始已經一齊坐。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕因為高囉﹐我們算是全班最高的女仔。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕當時我們已經好合的來﹐成日合作整蠱人。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕有些人小學很乖﹐只是讀書﹐沒有回憶﹐但我們喜歡玩﹐好活躍﹐將童真完全發揮出來﹐簡直不枉此生。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕現在看回<蠟筆小新>﹐<櫻桃小丸子>﹐簡直是我們小時的寫照﹐自以為會很多﹐頑皮又鬼靈精那種。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕你看起來好文靜﹐其實好多死蹺是你想出來的。</p>

###### 甲油事件

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕當時班上有個女同學好乖﹐又愛漂亮﹐我們說幫她搽指甲油﹐因為他不會﹐我們用鉛筆在她指甲上畫呀畫。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕不是鉛筆﹐是原子筆。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕是嗎﹖其實我們是整蠱她﹐但她還好開心﹐不知被人騙了。</p>

###### 篤臍闖禍

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕六年級小息時﹐不知為何很流行篤人肚臍﹐被篤的每個四處閃﹐我們想撮合一對男女。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕當時好單純﹐不知男女是什麼回事。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕只是想趁著那對男女站在一齊﹐篤那女仔﹔她會縮去男仔那﹐那便可讓他們黏在一塊兒﹐想法好幼稚。誰知那次真的篤那個女仔﹐她一縮﹐撞到那個男仔﹐男仔撞爛背後塊玻璃﹐手則弄損。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕校長知道好生氣﹐他已經好聰明﹐分開審問我們。於是一個被審時﹐另一個在校長室門口罰站。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕當時是人都知道我們被罰站﹐但我們還要扮看錶﹐好像等人似的﹐想到沒那麼羞。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕校長審完後要罰﹐可能他以為女仔怕痛﹐故意問我們罰打手板還是罰抄﹐怎知我們異口同聲說﹕打。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕因為我們懶惰抄嘛﹐怎知校長聽完愣了一愣﹐說﹕我不打女仔﹐都是罰抄拉﹐我們很沒癮呀﹗</p>

###### 眼鏡疑雲

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕從小到大﹐我和朱慧珊性格差不多﹐小時我們沒有近視。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕但故意告訴媽咪看不清楚﹐去驗眼時扮看不到東西﹐無端端配副眼鏡﹐搞到自己近視。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕因為每個同學都戴眼鏡﹐我們以為戴眼鏡代表很會讀書。</p>

###### 染油風雲

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕小時我的哥哥姐姐已經好大﹐媽咪又不讓我出街﹐但華倩有個年齡相若的哥哥陪她玩﹐所以我好羨慕。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕那時我爸爸開診所﹐我住閣樓﹐朱慧珊住在對面街尾一樓﹐我們只要站在窗口打個手勢﹐就知道對方做著什麼。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕有一晚媽咪去和喜酒﹐剩下我一人。我偷偷走下街﹐同華倩和她哥哥捉迷藏﹐當時街上泊滿貨車﹐我們趴在貨車底﹐弄到整件衣服都是車油。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕我們很怕被揭穿﹐立即走回家﹐藏入廁所洗衣﹐後來不記得怎樣了﹐但好像是順利過關。</p>

###### 困電梯事件

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕有一日我和華倩去一個女同學家玩﹔在我印象中﹐那個女同學住的是全大埔唯一有電梯的大廈﹐我和華倩第一次搭電梯﹐進到去好興奮﹐在裡面跳舞。按警鐘﹐等了好久﹐管理員把電梯撬開﹐找人一個一個救我們出去﹐怎知一上到地面﹐我們就逃﹐因為怕警察說我們把電梯弄壞﹐要捉去坐監。</p>

###### 月經丑事

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕小時﹐我和華倩會好多東西﹐好鬼馬。六年級時﹐坐在我們前面的女同學年紀比較大﹐她第一次來月經﹐把校裙弄髒﹐校工立即給件校服她換。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕其實我們知道什麼一回事﹐但又扮不知﹐猛問她﹕你剛才上那兒去了﹖為什么裙上有堆污垢的﹖那女仔已經好怕又好尷尬﹐不知怎麼對付我們﹐我們就達到目的。哈哈哈﹗

###### 吵架案例

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕當時女仔不同男仔玩﹐但男仔不敢欺負我們。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕因為我們腦筋轉得快﹐同學好怕被我們整蠱﹐但又喜歡和我們玩﹐他們唯有一面玩一面說﹕不好整蠱我。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕雖然說好老友﹐但都有吵架﹐為什麼吵就不記得﹐總之當時一齊坐﹐兩張桌子合在一起﹐一吵架﹐大家將桌子分開﹐如果桌子合回代表和好如初。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕吵的可能是濕濕碎的事。</p>

###### 話重聚

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕十二﹐三歲小學畢業﹐我們被分派到不同的中學﹐起初大家都有傾下電話﹐約在圖書館見﹐但久而久之﹐愈來愈少見﹐為了保持友誼﹐我們約了十八歲在天星碼頭五支旗杆下見面。

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕當時覺得十八歲已經好大個是貴婦﹐所以﹐我們約定戴闊邊大帽﹐飛角眼鏡﹐拖著隻狗出現。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕十八歲那年當然不記得啦﹐何況十八歲都無什特別感覺。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕小時﹐我們喜歡畫公仔﹐覺得讀時裝可以打扮又高貴﹐約了一齊去日本讀時裝﹐怎知你不去﹐我才報讀訓練班。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕是咩﹖我都不記得。話時話我們第一次在那裡撞回﹖</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕我想是做著工。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕好似在八九年。華倩訓練班畢業﹐我選完亞姐後加入TVB﹐有一日﹐在化裝間無意撞回她。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕初初見面比較生疏﹐但慢慢已經好熟落﹐可能因為我們的感情從小培養﹐基礎好﹐才可以這麼親密。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕如果其中一個將小時的事忘記完﹐或者會差些﹐但我們從頭到尾這麼有緣份﹐不知我們前世有什麼關係﹐可以從小到大都那麼老友。</p>

###### 話知心

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕從小到大﹐我們會在一個環境裡﹐突然間講同一句話﹐心有靈犀。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕平日我們成日通電話﹐什麼都能講﹐好相信對方﹐關係好親密。</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">曾﹕不過﹐大人了﹐一定有東西想﹐不像小孩子時代﹐沒什煩惱。每個人都有私隱﹐如果不是大問題﹐我不會主動去問﹐有些事大家都明白﹐不需要講出口。</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">朱﹕就因為我們是好朋友﹐我知你不開心﹐不會問﹐因為講了只會令你更加不開心﹐到你覺得應該講﹐自然會跟我講。相反﹐更重要是互相尊重﹐你要用自己的感受去想對方﹗</p>

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#### Margie And Sandra
<p style="text-indent:2em">When Sandra was asked who her best friend is, she quickly replied: "Margie. We've known each other for a long time and is very buddy. Sandra said Margie's good point is: "She is ugly which makes me appear prettier when we're seen together." She then added: "The reason we're so compatible is because we have different taste in men, there is no need to compete since she will not like the type I like."</p>

<p style="text-indent:2em">After joking a bit, Sandra then became more serious and said: "We are too compatible, whether its our thinking or personality, we are very similar. She was born only 4 days later than me, if we were born on the same day, we would be even more similar.</p>

<p style="text-indent:2em">On the other end, Margie's first response was: "We can talk about anything." Also, they both like insulting each other. "Our personalities are very close, we both talk too much and like to nag. My other friends always say that I am very ma fan (bothersome?) only with Sandra do I feel she is even more ma fan."</p>

<p style="text-indent:2em">"My most memorable experience with Sandra happened when we were in the Actors Training Class. For our final examination, we were asked to act very sad. Sandra and I thought of an idea, that is we would slap each other to make us cry. Instead, it made us laugh more than it made us cry, in the end we used the most force and slapped each other hard making it hurt so bad we couldn't stop crying and successfully passed the exam.</p>

####  Margie And Chu Wai San

###### San talks about Margie

<p style="text-indent:2em">People's personality changes at different stages in life. Margie used to be very blunt and will say things that can be quite cutting. During 89-90, she was somewhat cocky and will say things that snub me. I won't get mad because I know her too well, but I will sometimes think to myself: why would she say something like that? She may have been influenced by the people around her in the past years because she has changed quite a bit and is less blunt. She is now much more comfortable to be with. Margie is a very cheerful person, always making jokes. You can be assure that you will be happy being around her. Though she may appear to be always laughing and giggling, she is a very independant and mature person.</p>

###### Margie talks about San

<p style="text-indent:2em">She is one of my closest friend. We've known each other since we were little. I won't try to analyze her personlity, but I know exactly what she likes and not like when I see something while shopping. If I must describe her personality, I'd say she's a little dependant and does things at a very slow pace.</p>

###### Childhood Time

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	I was three when I first saw you, my mom and your mom was talking on the streets. I was hiding behind my mom, peeking at you.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Because we live on the same street, my mom and your mom played mah jong together.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	We later became classmates, and sat together in class since grade 3.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Because we were tall, we were probably the tallest girls in the class.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	We got along really well, and often thought of tricks to play on other people.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Some people were very well behaved as kids and only concentrated on their school work and not have much childhood memories. But we really playful and engertic. We have no regrets about our childhood.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	Some of today's cartoon are actually images of our childhood, we were just like the characters: know-it-all, bratty, and mischevious.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	You look like you're very quiet on the outside, but a lot of the stupid ideas were thought by you.</p>

###### The Nail Polish Incident

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	There was this very well behaved but vain girl in our class. We told her we will paint her nails for her because she doesn't know how. We took a marker and painted and painted ...</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	It wasn't a marker, it was a pen.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Was it? Actually we were playing a trick on her but she didn't know that and even thanked us for it.</p>

###### Belly Poking

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	For some reason, belly poking was a fun thing to do when we were in grade six. Whoever got poked will start running all over the place to avoid getting poked again. We wanted to play matchmaker for a boy and a girl.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	We were very naive at the time and didn't know what boy and girl relationships were all about.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	We waited until the boy and the girl was standing close together and poke the girl to make her bump into the boy; so simple minded. But when we poked the girl, she knocked the boy over while trying to duck. The boy fell into some glass and cut his hand.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	The principal was very angry when he found out. He was very clever and questioned us separately. While one was being questioned, the other have to stand outside his office.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Everybody knew we were being punished, but we tried to pretend we were waiting for someone by looking at our watch from time to time to make it seem less embarassing.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	We also had to be punished after the questioning. Maybe because we were girls, the pricipal asked us whether we want to be slapped on the hand or write papers. To his surprise, we both blurted out at the same time: "Slap our hands".</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Thats because we were lazy, but the pricipal said he doesn't hit girls so he made us write anyways. We were not very impressed with his decision.</p>

###### The Truth About Eye Glasses

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Since childhood, our personalities are very similar. We did not need glasses when we were small.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	But we told our moms we couldn't see clearly and pretended everything was blury during the eye exam. We were prescribed glasses for no reason but is now nearsighted because of it.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	It was because everybody else wore glasses at school, we thought wearing glasses would make us smarter.</p>

###### Tainted Widh Grease Stains

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	My brothers and sisters are a lot older than me and my mom doesn't allow me to go outside and play. I was very envious of Margie because she had a brother close to her age that she can play with.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	At that time my dad had a medical clinic and we lived on the top floor. Chu Wai San lived in the building across the street, we can stand in front of the windows and find out what the other person was doing by making a signal.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	I was left at home by myself one evening because my parents and had to go to a wedding. I sneakly went downstairs and played hide and go seek with Margie and her brother. The streets were filled with parked trucks and we crawled under it making our clothes soiled with car grease.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	We were very afraid that our parents would find out so quickly went home and washed our clothes in the bathroom. Don't remember what happened next, but I think we got away with it.</p>

###### Trapped In The Elevator Incident

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	One day Margie and I went to visit a classmate. If I remember correctly, the classmate lived in the only apartment in Tai Po with an elevator. It was our first time taking the elevators, we were so excited we started to dance inside the elevator.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	We were dancing around and the elevator suddenly stopped. We were very scared and pressed the emergency button. We waited for a long time until the security man finally came and freed us. Once we were outside, we ran as fast as we could because we thought that the police would put us in jail for breaking the elevator.</p>

###### The Period

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	When we were little, Margie and I were very nosy and mischevious. In grade six, there was an older girl who sat in front of us. She had her first period and soiled her uniform, the teacher then gave her another uniform to change into.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	We actually knew what was going on but pretended we didn't know. We kept on asking the girl where did she just go and why was there a stain on her dress. The girl was very embarassed and didn't know how to respond to us. We felt very happy that we acheived our objective.</p>

###### Arguements

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Girls and boys did not play together back then, and the boys did not try to tease us.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	Because we were quick thinkers, many classmates were afraid we'll play tricks on them but they still wanted to play with us. As we play, they would continue to say "please don't play tricks on us."</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Although we were really good friends, we sometimes have arguements, don't remember what's it about but when ever we fought we we move our chairs apart. If the chairs were moved back together, it meant that everything was ok again.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	The arguements were always about little unimportant things.</p>

###### Reuniting

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	After graduating from elementry, we were assigned to go to different middle schools. In the beginning we still talked on the phone and sometimes meet at the libary. After a while, we saw less of each other. To maintain our friendship, we made a date to meet at the star ferry under the 5 flag poles when we're 18.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	At that time 18 sounded like a very sophisicated age and need to dress like a mature lady for the date. We decided we'll show up with our poodle and wearing wide rim hats and sunglasses.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Of course we forgot by the time we reached 18.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	When I was little, I like to draw so I wanted to be a fashion designer. We decided that when we grow up we'll go to Japan together to study fashion design. But later you didn't want to go so I joined the actors traing class instead.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	Really? I don't remember. By the way, when did we meet again?</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	I think at work.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	I think it was in 1989 when I joined TVB, I saw you in the makeup room.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	In the beginning, we were a little distant but became friendly again shortly after. Our friendship was built on a solid foundation, that why we're so close.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	It is quite a shame to forget your childhood. For whatever reason, Margie and I are really good friends since we were small.</p>

###### Nimate Talk

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	Since we were a child, we grew up in the same enviroment, sometimes we'll say the same thing at the same time. Its like we can read each other's mind.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	We talk on the phone all the time, we can tell each other anything and have total trust in each other.</p>

<p style="color:#1e50a2">M :	But as a person matures, she will have her own thoughts and secrets. Unless its something serious, I will not take iniative to ask. Many things do not need to be talk about, we both understand this point.</p>

<p style="color:#6c2c2f">S :	Because we're good friends, I will not ask why when you're not happy because that will only make you more unhappy. You will tell me when you want to. It is important to respect each other and see the situation in the other person's viewpoint.</p>